Ten years.April 19, 2025 marked a decade since Jamey died and somehow that number still doesn’t make sense. Not when I say it out loud. Not even when I write it.This year, Caeley and I went to visit his grave, as we often do. For reference to HOTties who've been following since the beginning, she’s … Continue reading Under the stone
Early 2025 Father’s Day
This picture likely means nothing to most HOTties. And that’s understandable since very few, if any readers, know where this picture was taken. I took it in a development near my current home. I need to clarify that my current home is across the street(well, actually a busy highway)from my former home that Jamey, Caeley … Continue reading Early 2025 Father’s Day
…..and the winner is….????
Tug is showing his Rhody Pride! Disclaimer—I have Covid. I warn you not for fear you will catch it through your phone or laptop—moreso because this will likely not be one of my better(or coherent) posts…I’m also aware I did not post about Jamey’s 7th anniversary yet on 04/19/22. I will. Soon… Well, leave it … Continue reading …..and the winner is….????
6 years—and a trip through a green cemetery.
Hi HOTties. In my infinite laziness, this year’s anniversary post was a live Facebook feed of Cael and my visit through the Steelmantown Cemetery. For those of you who haven’t read some of my previous posts, this is a “green” cemetery—no embalming, no caskets, everything(people included) is 100% biodegradable. All plots are still hand-dug by … Continue reading 6 years—and a trip through a green cemetery.
On Being Ghosted–by a Ghost
Jamey sucks as a ghost. Maybe it's just that I suck as a widow. Perhaps it's a combo of both; perchance it's nether. Regardless of the reasoning(s), I have yet to be significantly "visited' by my deceased husband. He has yet to pull any meaningful "Love Boat" guest appearances in my dreams. I don't eye-spy … Continue reading On Being Ghosted–by a Ghost
Headed Into Overtime 