Ten years.April 19, 2025 marked a decade since Jamey died and somehow that number still doesn’t make sense. Not when I say it out loud. Not even when I write it.This year, Caeley and I went to visit his grave, as we often do. For reference to HOTties who've been following since the beginning, she’s … Continue reading Under the stone
Author: Headed into Overtime
Early 2025 Father’s Day
This picture likely means nothing to most HOTties. And that’s understandable since very few, if any readers, know where this picture was taken. I took it in a development near my current home. I need to clarify that my current home is across the street(well, actually a busy highway)from my former home that Jamey, Caeley … Continue reading Early 2025 Father’s Day
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Tug is showing his Rhody Pride! Disclaimer—I have Covid. I warn you not for fear you will catch it through your phone or laptop—moreso because this will likely not be one of my better(or coherent) posts…I’m also aware I did not post about Jamey’s 7th anniversary yet on 04/19/22. I will. Soon… Well, leave it … Continue reading …..and the winner is….????
6 years—and a trip through a green cemetery.
Hi HOTties. In my infinite laziness, this year’s anniversary post was a live Facebook feed of Cael and my visit through the Steelmantown Cemetery. For those of you who haven’t read some of my previous posts, this is a “green” cemetery—no embalming, no caskets, everything(people included) is 100% biodegradable. All plots are still hand-dug by … Continue reading 6 years—and a trip through a green cemetery.
On Being Ghosted–by a Ghost
Jamey sucks as a ghost. Maybe it's just that I suck as a widow. Perhaps it's a combo of both; perchance it's nether. Regardless of the reasoning(s), I have yet to be significantly "visited' by my deceased husband. He has yet to pull any meaningful "Love Boat" guest appearances in my dreams. I don't eye-spy … Continue reading On Being Ghosted–by a Ghost
Headed Into Overtime 